what you want which seems to contradict your objection to 'chromosomic law' |
I don't see why people would need to specify their gender if they don't want to. Obviously there are always cases where the information may be needed, but in that case they should know that they're expected to reveal their gender. If trans, they would say "trans woman" or "trans man". Seems logical to me, and if someone lies,
What about people who have had a sex change and only want partners who have had one (or several?) too? Does that mean you should declare? |
Uhh.. Not particularly a situation that's compatible with the idea. They'd both ideally reveal to their partner before things progress that they're trans or not (if asked if they're trans and they aren't). They either accept each other or they don't. I don't think it would be ethical to keep it from each other. I saw a movie once about a guy who's girlfriend was "testing" him by telling him she was born a male. The whole movie he's trying to figure out if she was lying and figure out his own feelings. In the end, she was just lying, it was just a pointless movie. She kept saying, "Love has no gender," even though our brains decide "love" and our brains are usually wired for the opposite sex.
What happens if the sex change is the result of a crime, or an accident. |
I don't think that's how sex changes work.
At what stage of the proceedings is the validation required and who validates it? |
In my own mind, before physically intimate contact would be ideal. Perhaps there's an argument for simply before sexual contact.
What about people who are morally/religously(?) bound not to have sex until married. |
Then they'll be dating for a while, and it's only right not to waste someone's time by concealing information that you know could be a deal breaker yet you keep it hidden for extended periods. Similar to dating someone and not telling them about your HIV status because you don't want them to change their minds about you. Again, ideally they'd be legally bound to let you know in a timely manner, but laws in this regard can be tough to make and tougher to enforce.
What about your prospective partner who you want to be validated if they are not having the change for a couple of weeks? Can you wait that long? |
Not sure what you mean by this one. If someone is going to get a sex change, they're likely not someone I'd see romantically to begin with because they'd be male. If I'm dating a woman who becomes male, that would be clearly obvious to me when I see them.
What happens if you decide to have a sex change in the future - or worse still half way through your first meeting/get together? |
That's fine? No rules about this. Once they see you after the sex change, it's not like you can hide it. If you want to let them know beforehand, that's you. Once the change occurs, if by some tunnel vision or blindness they don't realize, they should inform the partner.
These are all questions you need to address before getting the law changed. Beware of the unintended consequences. |
The law would be similar to how someone would let a partner know they are HIV positive, but probably looser.